We know that being a parent today means juggling a lot - work, home life, and the constant buzz of notifications. Mobile phones are part of everyday life, helping us to get things done, from arranging play dates and ordering the food shop, to managing work and checking school notices. Parents have told us that sometimes, phone use can get in the way of the moments that matter most. Those everyday chances to connect, respond, and share time with their children.
In a recent survey of over 400 parents and carers in Cornwall, more than half said they feel their phone use sometimes distracts them from noticing their children. Over a third shared concerns about how often they use their phone around them.
Why it matters
90% of a child’s brain growth happens before the age of five. The way young children’s brains develop is shaped by the adults around them. This is simply through talking, smiling, looking at each other and being interested in what each other are doing.
Children thrive on social connection. Across thousands of little moments during these early years, you are helping them build the skills they need to have a healthy and happy life. Noticing and watching alongside as they play, smiling across the playground at the end of the school day.
The more we chat, play, and read with our children, the more we help build their brains. But when we’re distracted by screens nearby we may miss those small but powerful moments to connect.
We're here to help
This isn’t about judgement. It’s about recognising the pressures families face and offering simple ways to connect with your child, through play, conversation, and shared time together.
What might seem simple or silly can have the power to be life-changing! Every smile, cuddle, chat and game makes a huge difference. Any time, anywhere, whether at home or out and about, it all adds.
Whether you're looking for ideas, reassurance, or just a reminder to pause and be present, we're here to help. Explore these websites to find lots of easy ideas to help you make the most of those everyday moments.
Local Libraries - the library is a great place for children and teenagers. Our libraries offer free and easy access to world knowledge. They provide engaging events to support literacy and well-being.
Cornwall Family Information Service - The Cornwall Family Information Service (FIS) is here to provide information and advice on family matters and support services, childcare, and things to do locally.
Best Start in Life – from first sounds to telling stories, Best Start in Life has lots of tips on how to use everyday moments like cooking, playing and having fun help your child to learn new words.
CBeebies Parenting - simple fun and free activities to try with your children. The tips are easy to add to your daily routine, quick, and proven to help your child thrive.
Easy Peasy app – parents and carers in Cornwall with FREE access to parenting advice and activity ideas for children aged birth to five.
Words for Life - quick and easy tips and activities to discover new ways you could boost your child’s literacy skills while having fun chatting, playing and reading together.
Chat Play Read activity booklet - fun and simple activities to support babies’ and
toddlers’ communication and language development
Active Cornwall: 52 activity ideas from birth – simple weekly activity ideas, requiring little or no equipment.
Active Cornwall: 52 more physical play ideas - simple weekly activity ideas for children aged 1-2 years, requiring little or no equipment.
Look, Say, Sing, Play - Fun and easy tips to help you bring even more Look, Say, Sing and Play into your daily routine. You can also sign up for weekly emails to get expert tips for you and your child.
Healthy Movers Activity Cards - download the Healthy Movers at Home resources for easy, ideas to help your little ones move, play, and grow every day.